Wednesday, January 20th, 2010
A fresh new way of life in Nha Trang, Vietnam compared to the US
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Day 12: In Nha Trang, Vietnam. People have a problem here in Vietnam. They are too friendly! I can’t believe how nice and carefree people seem. They work double as hard as we do in the US but they’re still happier than we are. They mix a lot more with family and their diets includes some of the tastiest tropical fruits I have ever had. No wonder they stay thin and jolly all the time.

People are genuinely happy here. Just today we found throngs of people picnicing on the beach eating rice and chicken for 50 cents and poking jokes with friends laughing from the tonsols of their throats. Are they happy? These people have absolutely nothing – no iPods, no cars, and no fancy clothes. They’re just roughing it and it seems from their outlook on life, they’re living a “good” life with friends, work, and family.

In America, we want more, more, more. Here, they have less, less, less and it’s working for them. All I remember from America is stress from work, stress from bills at home, stress from traffic, and stress struggling against the wake of mainstream being a Muslim. For me it’s truly more relaxing living here in Southeast Asia where you can be yourself and live a simpler life within a more wholistic society that possesses a balanced and blended value system.

I will upload past journal entries since the beginning of January along with pictures as soon as I get proper www in this country. Facebook is banned in Vietnam by the Viet Kong. Yes, they still exist and they stole my lunch money! Just kidding man.

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  • Basim says:

    Ayman, I miss America too much but there's other English-speaking places like Canada, the UK, and Australia that better understand the work-life equation. I'm without a job right now, kind of phone interviewing as I backpack along. We'll see what happens. I'm walking around with about $7 in my pocket daily with a constant fear of running out of money. It feels great living on a couple pairs of pants and between people so different that nobody knows you. Bishtheek feeyha. Have you considered being a teacher abroad in South Korea or Spain? I've met many teachers backpacking…

  • Basim says:

    Ayman, I'm writing you from the Communist country of Vietnam whose system is the total opposite of that of America's you describe. But I'll tell you what: selling is really pushy here, too, and human nature has a tendency to buy more every day. But buying supports families and it's more like necessities like food, clothing, and the works. People have a lot more control here because people don't buy everyday things on credit. If they don't need it, they don't buy it. People don't judge you by what you wear as heavily as they do in the US but trust me materialism is seeping in here as well and it is much a part of the value system of the middle and higher classes here. It's companies like American Express and other credit agencies that are to blame for on one end charging you to sign up, charging you to rotate a balance, and charging you annually. They make buying seem so easy.

  • Ayman Wafai says:

    Amazing… there's a never ending fallacy here in the US that material goods = happiness. The pressure to always buy buy buy and give in to this commercialism nightmare is ridiculous. I'm getting more sick of it by the day. And what's funny is that most Americans don't realize that this is the reason why the economy is so bad because the pressure is so great they become irresponsible in buying cars and houses they could never afford.

    It's great to hear about your travels man, keep it up and stay there as long as possible. Economy not getting better here in the US there are still no projects. Stay there as long as possible even if it's for another year…


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